Anonymous asked: It's so hard when you've had a friend in your life for so long, and then randomly, after one year apart, or one year away from each other, they change completely. And they're never the same again. And you try to hangout with them, but you're suddenly hanging out with a whole new person; a person you WOULDNT be friends with if you had not previously met them. Is it bad that I hate change? I despise it? And whenever it happens, I want to curl up and cry. So many peole in my life have changed for the worst and left me stationary in a place I don't want to be anymore. I like that I can stay who I am for so long, but it's so sad when everyone around me becomes a new, horrible person. Slutty. Or cocky. Or stuck up. All these things and all these people eat me alive.
- thanks for listening. Felt like sharing.
I feel exactly the same way, like everyone becomes someone else and completely conforms.. My best friend got a boyfriend and completely changed, stopped being who she was when we became best friends and we hardly speak anymore. It’s a horrible feeling, I just want to shake them and yell at them to be who they are but they wouldn’t listen.. I don’t think it’s bad atall that you hate change, especially when it comes to your friends changing cos who would like that? I despise it too.
